Why am I in the middle of this Greek tragedy involving myself and a Korean guy? Stop flooding the Korean’s inbox with your 20-page sob story!
If you want some genuine help, go read this instead.
”Some of the emails are simply the result of Korean men being around non-Korean women, but many of the emails seem to be a direct result of the recent popularity of Korean dramas and the male actors in them.
(For example, Kwon Sang-Wu in the picture.) Korean guys are now singled out as a category, and they seem to feature in amorous fantasies of many non-Korean women. It’s relatively uncommon, but hey, interracial dating is always relatively uncommon. (She’s a keeper.)The Korean tangentially covered this as well.
Small gestures of affection For all this shyness, if your Korean male friend is romantically interested in you, he will make it evident in numerous small ways.
You can probably expect flowers or little gifts like a trinket or a porcelain figurine.
Whatever relationship problem you are having, 99 percent of it has to do with the fact that he is a man, and maybe 1 percent of it has to do with the fact that he is Korean.At some point, your guy will be forced to choose between you and everyone else he knows. And all men lie, beg, manipulate, and do other despicable things to have sex with women. The fact that they have less respect for you would make this more likely. Remember, there is a strong pressure for Koreans to get married in their early 30s at the latest.So if there is a single Korean who is older than, say, 33, either s/he went through some unusual circumstances, or something is wrong with that person. Lastly, do not fall for the two classic mistakes that all women make about men at some point in their lifetime: "He is different from everyone" and "He will change for me." The first one is correct only about 20 percent of the time, and the second one is never correct.Some guys will be genuinely interested in you as a person, some will want a girlfriend to practice English with and some will view you as a trophy.These are not unusual impulses in cases of inter-racial dating all over the world; so when a Korean guy asks you out, go ahead with the expectation of having fun rather split hairs about the real intention of asking you out.