This is one of the cruel jokes of the dating world: younger men are focused on significance and younger women are focused on connection. At some point, an older man will realize he's squandered his youth on the pursuit of power and may have neglected his family in the process.
I prefer dating older men — I’m talking a decade or more, like a Nigerian model who recently married a governor who is three decades her senior. For your information, absent dads do not always breed girls with a penchant for older men. Any girl can be a little slutty; it has nothing to do with their daddy. Nowadays, everybody and their mother seem to have a strong opinion about young women dating older men.
Finances aside, the best part about dating a much older gentleman is that he knows exactly how to treat a lady and respect her feelings. ALSO READ: 10 things new wives do that piss off their men They have made, or seen all the mistakes made in the dating game and have learnt from experience what to do and what not to do.
In general, dating games are rather boring to a guy who’s probably had his fair share.
Dating an older man has a bad stigma attached to it. A lot of people find it immoral even when they don’t know the motivation behind the relationship.
Women who prefer to date from a much older pool get unfairly lumped with the young women that like older men simply for their money. Sure, there’s a strategic advantage for women who snag an older gent —older men have had more time to accumulate resources and stability than his younger counterparts, which make them a more viable partner for a long-term relationship.
It is great when your partner can use his experiences to guide you. ALSO READ: Can you turn a bad girl to girlfriend material?