If we find you are just contacting members to ask for their assistance in this, we will delete and ban you without notice. When you fill out a request for a pen pal, please do NOT put your email address anywhere else but the "Email Address" field!
Our system is set up to keep your email address private, and we will delete any requests which have a visible address outside the "Email Address" field.
It's just not respectful to start out by disregarding your desired penpal's wishes.
With thousands of penpals on file, you can find another one that suits your needs.
Postcards or small trinkets are cool and fun to exchange -- just don't be surprised if your new "friend" disappears with your cash.
If we get complaints about this, you will be banned immediately without notification. Do not use this site to request "invitations" for tourist visas, marriage requests, requests for employment, or anything else related to asking for help to visit another country.
If you become friends with someone, let visiting happen in its own time.
The Pen Pal Party is intended to be an easy and fun place to look for penpals, or become a penpal, but we do have a few rules. It is not to find your "own lovely lady" or wife or sex partner or date or lover or participant in cybering.
These are mostly for your protection and privacy, and the enjoyment of everyone. If you are 13 years of age or younger, you may not post penpal requests on this site. We will instantly ban anyone who violates this, and we will delete profiles that appear to be looking for love, marriage, or sexual activity of any kind. If someone says "NO penpals from USA," and you are from the USA, do not respond to that request.
DO NOT use Penpal Party JUST for your school or research projects!